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I was happy people still thought of me but it was actually pretty tiresome and exhausting.
I learned a lot along the journey to the chuppah and have observed what many singles seem to be doing right… In the interest of helping others cut down on the wear and tear of being single, here are some pieces of advice for older single guys (and probably many younger guys as well): 1. When I found out the “bad news” I would feel as if I’d been kicked in the stomach. I’d tell him what was going on and unload the full weight of my being single. He’d listen carefully and be sympathetic, but then (and I kid you not) he’d sing me lyrics from Frank Sinatra's That's Life: “I pick myself up and get back in the race.” He did this every time.
I can’t say I was thrilled the first few times; it didn’t match the terrible state I felt I was in.
If you like finding new things to do, then by all means, go for it.
But if being a social activities director is a bit much for you, have a few set date ideas that you know work.
Don’t just go out and hang out over and over again. It's a bit immodest to share so much so quickly; it creates a false intimacy. No need to spill your guts about negative stuff early on. Listen to what women tell you about dating Women told me that they did not like going out without being told beforehand whether they were going to dinner or not (they didn’t care either way, but would eat beforehand if they knew to do so).